#but i'd rather it be with a partner...
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Not me buying a very expensive sex toy, wondering how much I'll actually end up using it.
#like yeah; most all toys can be solo#but i'd rather it be with a partner...#lmao; me never even talking to people#that's likely#anyway; been looking at this one for... 6/7 years now?#transthetic shit is expensive man
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(also feel free in the tags to clarify Why you made the choice you made!! :0c)
#polls#tumblr polls#For me I think the top ones would be the House. The Money. or the Friend Group. But I ultimately might would go for the house#JUST becuase it would be my Dream House which means it would already meet mostly all of my specifications#and what I might be looking for. which would save a lot of time searching or customizing/rennovating.#Also because I could use that as a way to leave the US lol.. like .. if I get to choose my dream location.. couldnt I just choose some othe#country?? But I wonder how that works. Can you legally 100% have full ownership of a property in a country yet not be a citizen of that#country?? Would you show up and be like 'erm.. i own this house.. so i shall now live in it' and theyd be like 'uh no. you cant live here#despite owning the house. leave.' ??#So I think the initial process of 1. scraping together funds to actually MOVE myself and my most valuable belongings physically#TO another country. and 2. figuring out how to STAY in that country . might end up being difficult.. BUT. if I could just work that#part of things out then.. dream house?? security for once in my life?? stability?? :0#Though the $1mil is enticing it's also like.. I feel .. with the way housing prices are now... that's not much???#it's a lot I guess if you plan on like.. investing half the money and staying in an apartment for 5 years while you grow your wealth#or something. but if you're a 'I Need Stability NOW' ready to settle down person who would be most interested in owning a property rather#than nice clothes or a car or whatever other investments you could make then.. eh..?? It seems like unless you're okay with living in#a small town or kind of far away from the city - even some SMALL houses in majorly populated areas in the US will be like#$600.000 - $900.000 or something. like that would be MOST of my money. Which I know you could just pay partially and make#payments on it but idk.. in the option of just outright owning the house it seems like it'd end up being cheaper.#Plus I would want to own it fully asap because I'd be afraid of losing it somehow otherwise. like it being taken for medical bills or#something. which I thought was supposed to be - not IMPOSSIBLE - slightly more complicated legally if you actually have#paid off the house in full. I guess the issue then would be utilities and property tax and such. But I feel like thats overcome-able??#Like I could just stipulate that my Dream House has a little furnished addition or something and then find someone#with money and be like 'Look you can live in this extremely nice area with amazing ameneties and updated everything and ALL you have#to do is give me money to cover the utilities and property tax.'' or something like that. Like the little furnished addition is nicer#than the actual house. they have their own pool and spa and movie room or something and Ill also cook all their meals for them#or whatever (how luxurious it would be depeneds on how high the property tax actually is/how much I would need to entice them into#why it's a good deal for them to pay it for me lol). idk... something like that.. ANYWAY#I asked a few people I know though and one of them answered they'd rather have a romantic partner. the other one said they'd like#to be able to choose someone to die lol.. So I'm curious what people value the most
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I know Kevin mostly showed up in NXT to punch Waller before Waller could take advantage of Trick's distraction to steal away Trick's title shot because he hates Waller, but part of me suspects that he saw enough of Carmelo in their Smackdown match together to recognize a faithless, jealous friend acting out of spite (he knows what that looks like very well!) That's Carmelo he's shrugging at, I'm pretty sure: Good try, buddy.
#wwe#kevin owens#trick williams#grayson waller#carmelo hayes#I wonder if we're heading to KO being Hayes' first feud on the main roster?#(I'd rather Kevin chase A Town Down to the Dusty Classic and require a tag partner to help out...)
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I'm honestly not sure which is worse, people being in denial and ignoring what's in front of them, or people obviously and clearly seeing what's in front of them but not taking it seriously...
#like someone looking annoyed and unhappy in the same post-event pics their partner takes over and over#or someone sounding upset when they tell their partner to stop filming them#i'm sorry but if you care about someone you do not go out of your way to repeatedly post unflattering pictures of them#also#if you have to keep reminding people that someone is your partner#that's probably not a good sign#and if everything is a joke then there is no reason to take these relationships seriously at all#i've said it before and will again#i'd rather look like a 'bad' fan and talk about the reality of the situation#than look like a 'good' fan by ignoring it#thoughts#discourse
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#i kinda forgot why i try to spend as little time near my family as possible but then i go to their house and in the matter of a few days#they insult my appearance insult my friends and (albeit unknowingly) insult my partner#then proceed to tell me i look like shit and i will never be successful and that they think im going to hell because i don't act#in the specific religious way they want me to#they also told me i'd never get a husband which theyre not wrong about but still#so yeah if i ever start to forget why i hate my family please point me back to this cause ill forget again and i Can't Afford To Forget#to be clear i have a contingency if things become imminently dangerous like i'd be okay but id like to not do that if possible#like do i feel safe? no. but id rather risk it and keep their financial support and the car for as long as possible#so in a way it's a bit my own fault i'm still here but it is what it is i've accepted it#anyway sorry for the vent post but it's been absolute shit and did i mention i hate the holidays#personal
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I'm also engaged and honestly the thought of vows and doing the whole ceremony and all that feels....overwhelming
I'm halfway tempted to ask him to elope and then have a party after the fact once we've got a bit more stability
that's kind of what we're leaning towards, too. every wedding i have ever gone to has turned out bad. like people just use it as a moment to shit on the people getting married for whatever reason. like why spend money on a huge ceremony for people who hardly like you when you could just elope and then take a vacation and like fuck in the woods and go site seeing lmao.
#ilium asks#like we were already leaning towards this because of our families different religions#but ever since my auntie called my taste in wedding dress “gross” i was like wow i really dont' like most of my family at all actually#i'd much rather just have a special moment alone with my partner than deal with those freaks
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I think it's a little funny that when I was younger I took the fact I wasn't particularly into any gender expression as oh I like everyone! I have no preference, it doesn't matter to me! no, sweet thing. you just weren't attracted to anyone
#the more I see my friends talk about falling in love or wanting sex and it's like. hmm. I. cannot relate#it has convinced me more than ever that I am DEFINITELY aroace#sex makes me sick! romantic relationships are boring! nooo thanks no one will ever get me like I get me I don't need this nonsense#I tried having a boyfriend One time and it was so stressful and annoying I broke up with him two weeks later#never attempted THAT again#I'm so fixated on romantic media and I love flirting but I'd rather die than belong to someone like that#which is a little confusing considering how touchy and possessive I am. like you'd think that would mean I'd WANT a partner but I don't#I just want reallyyy close friends#aroace#—:*after these messages we'll be righttttt back*:—
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Does your boyfriend know you call him Asshole? 😂

He does now lmao
#not snz#we're talking on the phone while I'm posting this 😌#out here vibing#he's laughing about it just so we're all on the same page#like he thinks it's hilarious#anyway he does know y'all exist like I've mentioned it to him a few times#he just doesn't know that it's a kink blog ahdkaks#he knows there's nsft things that get discussed so he's not completely in the dark on that regard#but I'm not telling him about the kink lmao I'd rather gnaw my own hand off#he thinks it's cute that i talk about him 🥰#anyway i miss him and i wanna see him but alas i Cannot 😔😔#like we are literally talking on the phone but i still miss him 😔#partner posting
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pokemon headcanons for the big three boys
#go onger#changeman#gingaman#sentai#pokemon#flightless talonflame speedor spams bravebird until the bitter end#clefable nana isnt a fighting partner but can beat the shit out of you if she needs to#half shiny doublade ones called bullriot ones called krantz#(no scabbards because i didnt want to draw them i appreciate your understanding)#i'd tell you their move sets/natures/held items/ablities but i dont want to bore you <3 <3 <3#*banging against the bars of my cage* I HATE DRAWING HYUUGAS ARMOUR I HATE DRAWING HYUUGAS ARMOUR#i love him so much but oh my god i would rather draw his suit any day of the week over his (and ryoumas) damn outfits#2024 art tag
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The fact that you only started drawing recently blows my mind, because you are beyond skilled!!
You can write, you can draw - can ya leave some skills for the rest of us?!
I consider you my friend and want to say this but I don't have the guts to say it off anon SORRY:
I AM PROUD OF YOU AND THE HARD WORK YOUVE DONE TO GET SO GOOD
ASKFFHJKF GAWD *ragdolls out with emotions* PRECIOUS.
This is what 10 years of Solas does to a frog previously marinating in a bog 😂
You're much too kind skjfhfjk I'm TRYING, which is a very strange feeling to have when I don't know where I'm going art-wise! I'm so overwhelmed with people being nice to me lately, and even more so that I have people that are proud of me?? My keyboard has a tear droplet on it now thx ok I'm going to stop before I say anything else ridiculous. thank you 💜💜💜
#mogwaei.txts#no one but my partner cares about my art IRL#fucking sobbing at the idea of people I've never met caring and watching me on my art journey#you all mean so much to me 'thank you' never captures the overwhelming love i feel for people like you anon 💜#emo on main lol#there's a lot i wish i could talk about or explain but i've been shamed by family members for Feeling so idk how to act anymore :D#plus i'd rather try very hard to be positive online. I'm sorry for sadposting here lately ig life sorta got to me#anon friend 👀
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Happy 2024, everyone! Figured I’d start the year off sliding in with another large gif re-release post because I’ve been debating reposting these for awhile, and I’m sure someone could use them.
Due to the changes Payhip has made with free products, in the source link is a Payhip link containing a text file with links to download 3,258 gifs (varying sizes, but mostly 280x210px) of Dominic Sherwood in various projects. Specific projects and their exact gif numbers are listed below; all of these gifs were made by me (and are 100% free).
Billionaire Ransom (Take Down): 153 gifs (280x210px) Don’t Sleep: 269 gifs (270x180px) Eraser Reborn: 701 gifs (280x210px) Partner Track (Entire Season): 1,008 gifs (280x210px) Shadowhunters Season 1 (E01-04, E10): 902 gifs (280x210px) Social Media Videos: 104 gifs (mostly 280x210px, 2 gifs are from a gif set I posted on a side blog so they’re not) Vampire Academy: 121 gifs (280x210px)
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#dominic sherwood gif pack#dominic sherwood gif hunt#dom sherwood gif pack#dom sherwood gif hunt#rph#rphr#gif packs#gif pack#* mine#userdevon#(listen I gotta tag you in the gifs of your boy because I'm finally posting them)#also ngl actual footage of me trying to remember if i actually ever posted eraser and partner track - I know i had them uploaded before#people were so shitty in my dms about my gifs after my cousins died that I peaced out but I can't remember if i hit post whoops#yet again sorry for the long post listen I'd rather make one long post then spam the tag 7 times in a row
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Also slightly related to previous...I put in an application on a puppy 🫣
#my chances of getting one are really really low but. the breeder i really like had a larger litter than anticipated#but: I've officially decided not to go to the school i got into. more research suggests that any mobility struggle there will be punished#if i decided to apply elsewhere then it would be a year and a half before it starts#by which point baby will start to have a brain and maybe even start being useful#and bc i did that math and couldn't face another five years without a dog.#also bc i was looking at rescues charging NINE HUNDRED DOLLARS for heartworm positive pitbull mixes#so I'd rather traumatize the thing myself it will be cheaper damn#i have not raised a puppy as an adult and neither has my partner so it is a little scary#but only a little. bc I'm not getting one 🧿🧿🧿
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The things I'm doing and gonna do just so I can have enough to convince my parents that I wanna stay single till at least 40
#*sigh*#I mean good for you guys who wanna get married to their nice partners#To me marriage just feels like a setup where the guy and society make sure the woman has no personal life and loses her independence#She ends up stuck raising a child and meanwhile who knows? While she is pregnant the guy might be out cheating on her#because suddenly she is not “attractive enough”#screw that#I'd rather be on my own
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the pro of "crazy dyke" being Your Type (TM) is that it makes you look like you're """One Of The Good Ones (TM)""" or whatever without even trying. you love queer women in fiction & therefore are freed from every fandom conversation about how most people only like the white men. or something. (the truth is you just like women with complex relationships to queerness, womanhood, & oftentimes their cultures as well, for various personal reasons.)
the con of "crazy dyke" being Your Type (TM) is obviously. God Help You if you want to find fandom content exploring your faves with the kind of messy nuance you thrive on.
#it's a very [rolls up sleeves] 'guess i have to do everything myself' kind of situation.#luz and hennessy have almost NOTHING in common personality-wise or values-wise. but wow the crazy dyke is so strong in both of them#being a dyke in a polycule full of dykes who's friends with a bunch of dykes with very complex relationships to race and gender and such#it's like. yeah obviously this is what i'm gonna gravitate toward. this is closest to my lived experience and the experiences of#the ppl surrounding me. you know??#it's not performative it's just. my life. it's just my life.#having a native american partner and a jewish partner having latine and Black and asian dyke friends#these are the stories that are most interesting to me. and yet. so rarely are they the stories that are most interesting to anyone else#it can be. lonely as hell. lol. this post is tongue-in-cheek i'd rather have people who Get Me in fandom than look performatively good.#u know.
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nowadays I wish Oda would stop Sanji's Nami mania if he doesn't want them to be canon. In the beginning his simping scenes were funny but the manga ends soon and this ship still just a joke. tbh I don't understand why Oda so afraid of romance. SaNa remind me Sango and Miroku from Inuyasha. he was a big playboy but in the end he only loved Sango. Shonen and couples totally normal.
Hello, anon, I feel you. SaNami holds a very special place in my heart and I think they have great potential as a couple (they will always be my number one ship) but sometimes I try to understand what exactly Oda is doing with them.
We can clearly see that Sanji does see Nami differently, like Miroku did with Sango (I also watched Inuyasha, and I loved them together).
The major problem will always be how Oda stated he does not want romance amongst the crew - which to some extent I understand, he does not want to shift the dynamic amongst the Strawhats (romance always makes people focus on the couple rather than the rest of the group) - but it annoys me to no end how, even if he says all of that, Oda still makes Sanji walk an extra mile for Nami.
If he intends to make another ship with them canon in the end, why write Sanji's interaction towards Nami the way he does?
Don't get me wrong, I love it when Sanji defends Nami, cares about her, and is really kind to her (she deserves that) - but if Oda is making all of this, because he wants Sanji to go through some type of heartbreak (or because he thinks it's funny, even after all these years) I think it would be better if he just stopped with Sanji's favoritism over Nami and make the cook move on, for his own good and hers too.
Obviously, Oda doesn't need to make Sanji stop being kind to her - I doubt he cares for Nami expecting something in return (see Pudding, for example, who he didn't stop being kind towards even after everything she said about him) - but Sanji can threat Nami well and still be with someone who loves him as much as he would love that someone (and doesn't humiliate him like other characters already did).
So, yeah, anon, I get you, and I am also tired. I will continue to ship them because I do think this ship has potential, and I think that both characters would be extremely happy with the other, but if Oda does not want them to be together at the end, I say: just make Sanji move on from Nami and make them end up with good love interests.
Sanji can still treat Nami well, with love and affection, just like he does with every woman, and still have a happy ending with a loving partner.
#SaNami will always be my favorite ship#And I will root for them to no end#but if Oda is doing all of this just so he can make those pointless gags#I'd rather he end this before the end of the manga#and give both Sanji and Nami partners that will make them happy#but thats me
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romantic gestures. bold what you're sure applies to your muse, italicize what could be possible / it's dependent on the situation.
holding hands (in public) · buying flowers · cooking · cuddles · writing a poem / song · holding door open · tying shoe laces · sharing a milkshake with two straws · offering their jacket when it's cold · kissing in the rain · publicly confessing love · long walks at the beach · doing the titanic pose on a boat · taking cute pictures in a photobooth · sharing a taxi / uber · kissing the back of their hand · slow dancing · getting tickets of their favourite artist / sports team / other · introducing them to their parents · lighting candles · flower petals on bed · love letters · star gazing · brushing / doing their hair · picnics · teaching them to play an instrument / sport while gently guiding their hands · compliments · late night drives · taking selfies together · drawing them · self-made gifts · massages · proposing with a family heirloom ring · lending them their favourite book to read · paying for dinner / coffee · mixtapes / playlists · surprise birthday parties · feeding them · handing them keys to their apartment · making space in drawer for their clothes when they stay over · sharing a blanket · couple costumes · tucking a hair strand behind their ear · running after them at the airport / keeping them from leaving · moving cities to be together · blowing a kiss · breakfast in bed · defending them in a fight (verbally / physically) · joint bubble baths · dropping the L-bomb ("I love you") · dedicating a song at the karaoke bar to them · wearing their clothes · yawning before putting an arm around them while watching a movie · grant them the last bite (from meal)
stolen from: @riddlesnap (TYTY ❤️)
tagging: anyone who'd like to do this, as i don't know for sure who's done it already and who hasn't LOL
#NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU THAT BRAVERY FEELS LIKE FEAR: musings.#rp memes.#ooc post.#yeahhh... as you may or may not be able to tell anastasiy is a rather 'chivalrous' partner whenever it comes to relationships#BC he'll do the things that are normally associated with it such as holding a door open for them or kissing the back of their hand-#and buying them flowers etcetera. but i don't mean that in a bad way in this case OFC because ana is very much someone who tries-#to be as loving as possible to their partner because of course he thinks they deserve the whole wide world and wants to show them that okok#but while ana is comfortable with public displays of affection such as holding hands with another i feel like he would be of the opinion-#that confessing your love to someone in public can sometimes be kind of an iffy thing as it puts someone on the spot + makes them feel-#like they have to say 'oh i like you too' or whatever might be the appropriate response to what he said to them if that makes any sense#so anastasiy tries not to do that in front of a bunch of people most of the time but other than that#i'd say one of his favorite things to do to show his love for his partner is acts of service such as cooking for them or making them-#playlists as it said in here and defending them in a fight might not exactly apply to that buttt this is something that ana feels-#is especially important for him to do when in a relationship BC if you don't stand up for your partner then who will?#plus it's just like... the decent thing to do in my humble opinion so OFC he'd wanna try to do that haha but anywaysss#i hope you all have had a good tuesday and i just want you to know that i look forward to interacting with each + every one of you more-#on here as well BC i feel like i don't say that enough but i really am excited to create more dynamics with people regarding him and stuff#so always feel free to send things my way if you want to even if we have a thread and/or threads going BC spam is absolutely welcome here!!
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